The uproar about Don Cherry’s recent remarks is a commentary on how we deal with controversy.
Our approach too often is one of confrontation and hostility.
Our lack of civility and good manners has been exaggerated and made worst by social media.
Most religious traditions teach the importance of silence and listening in our discourse.
The tongue (and now the keyboard) is a sassy and mischievous creature, and if not controlled can cause a lot of damage.
We live in a noisy world marked by constant contact, and we hardly know how to be silent. Our dialogue would be less divisive if we just learn to pause and reflect on the matter under discussion.
The tongue (and now the keyboard) is a sassy and mischievous creature, and if not controlled can cause a lot of damage.
Disciplining the tongue is an ongoing struggle and we need to be on constant vigil.
Learning to pause is a valuable practice, the count-to-10 advice.
Another essential component of good conversation is listening to the other. This goes along with respect and acknowledging each other’s dignity.
I guess it comes down to simple good manners, putting the other first.
Everett Hobbs
Conception Bay South
