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UPEI offers promising future to refugee from Rwanda

Sibomana Aimable, a native of Rwanda, is settling into life as a student at UPEI after spending many years in refugee camps. Guardian photo by Jim Day

Sibomana Aimable, a native of Rwanda, is settling into life as a student at UPEI after spending many years in refugee camps.

Published on February 13, 2013
Published on February 12, 2013
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Sibomana Aimable taking engineering at Charlottetown school through World University Service of Canada

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World University Service of Canada , Charlottetown school , Rwanda , Democratic Republic of Congo , Tanzania.Again

For years, Sibomana Aimable measured his future in mere hours.

Life in one refugee camp after another did not afford the slightest cause to adopt an optimistic outlook, or a long-term one.

“The thing I could think of is what is going to happen tomorrow? Will I get something to eat,’’ said Aimable, a 22-year-old student at UPEI.

His life as a refugee was wrought with hardship and heartache.

Aimable was just four years old when he fled in 1994 with his parents and his older sister from a brutal civil war in Rwanda. The family landed in a refugee camp in the Democratic Republic of Congo. The young boy spent four miserable years in the camp.

“The life really was very difficult — difficult to get food or clean water,’’ he said. “I did not know what was going to happen.’’

What happened was both of his parents drowned while trying to cross a river under the hail of bullets fired by soldiers.

Aimable’s much older sister, Rirbetha, suddenly was thrust into the dual role of mother/sibling. The pair spent eight years together in another refugee camp in Tanzania.

Again, life in a refugee camp was very tough. Getting food was a continual challenge. Aimable and his sister would go days at a time without eating.

Aimable would be forced at times to sneak out of the camp to beg for food in the streets of Tanzania.

In 2004, refugees in the camp were told to return to their home country. Rirbetha refused to go back to Rwanda. She was shot dead trying to run away.

Aimable ran away with a group to Malawi, where he would stay in yet another refugee camp.

He was only 14 and staying in the camp by himself. He fetched water and gathered firewood in the forest to earn money to buy basic necessities.

He also hit the books. He performed well in school in the camp earning a pass to attend public school.

Later, the World University Service of Canada (WUSC) would put him on to a path of far greater promise than he would ever have believed possible during a life of so much despair and seemingly devoid of prospect.

Opportunities for refugees to pursue higher education are virtually non-existent, notes WUSC, leaving many bright and talented students unable to achieve their academic or professional goals.

WUSC provides refugee students like Aimable an opportunity to leave a camp and pursue higher education at a Canadian university or college, resettling in Canada as permanent residents.

In September, Aimable began the engineering program at UPEI.

Suddenly, something good was happening in a life previously mired in difficulty and disaster. The fabulous reversal of fortune was hard to believe.

Now he is determined to make the best possible play of his much improved hand.

“I am given a chance,’’ he said. “I will go for it.’’

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    another mess for the island
    - February 17, 2013 at 00:03:22

    OMG Another mess brought to our Island. And who paid for this? Please do not tell me the taxpayers. This should be paid for by a private citizen if they want to do this and not by taxpayers. If taxpayers monies are involved, then the person who started this should be made to pay for this so called generous gift.

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    Iddrissa Gakiga
    - February 13, 2013 at 18:20:35

    By the way, it is to be noted that almost all Rwandans who fled to the Democratic of Congo had murdered Tutsis from their own country Rwanda and were afraid that the RPF would revenge on them. As narrated this boys might be innocent because he was a baby when he freed, but, I am questioning about his parents. Challenge me if you do not agree and go through the history of Rwanda. In Hutu refugee Camps in DRC, recruitments were undertaken by the former soldiers and militias who carried out the genocide of Tutsis in Rwanda to reorganize and attack their own mother land. It is unfortunate that Sibomana lost his sister who was the only sibling he had, but why did she refuse to return to Rwanda once ordered by the Tanzanian authorities until she was shot-killed? (Sorry again for Sibomana.) I did not come to challenge the poor orphan Sibomana, but I wished readers to know that Hutu Refugees who followed the Killers- Genocidaires are not innocent as being portrayed, just because they were refugees in Congo Camps.

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      Remmy Byiringiro
      - February 14, 2013 at 00:17:17

      Hey IDRISSA , I do not think you are right at all . Most of the refugee who fled to DRC Cong were very innocent and victims of a ruthless hatred that bestowed our country .I do not this it is right at all for you criticize Sibomana's parents because you do not know them at all and that is not right. A lot of people who left the camps in Tanzania during the forced repatriation many of them were killed or jailed instantly in Rwanda. If you have read the history you know the killings done by the RPF in Rwanda during 1995-1999 .And The massacre of of children and women in DRC Congo I was there I saw it . So please do not judge at all because we have all had our own experience and Sibomana and I are part of the new generation ,that has suffered but endured and we are past ethnic divisions you would like to portray ,they do not exist anymore .

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      Celestin Bagabo
      - February 15, 2013 at 10:21:24

      Dear Iddrissa, Thank you for your comments, but I would like you to try and be honest when you want to make judgement on Rwandan's situation. I find it so difficult to understand people who think that most of the hutus killed tutsis,!! Without going to the logic of this, we know that mathematical to finish all the tutsis would mean that at least every 4 hutus would kill one tutsi!!! ?. The maximum number of tutsis killed is one million, the country had nearly 8millinons of population, what does that tell you!!?? to my understanding this tells me that more than 90% of hutu had nothing to do with this. Contrary the number of hutu who died is more than the total number of tutsi who have ever existed in Rwanda, get me right I don’t say that every tutsi killed hutu, I am just saying that there are many killers in Rwanda that we are told to believe. Hutu and Tutsi can live together in harmony and we can achieve our dream peace but this is possible if we can dare to tell the truth. I nvite all the Rwandans to open-up, say the truth and we shall once agin live together as one nation, FPL that you seem to praise so much killed my parents on sunshine, everyone in my neighbourhood, they was no war, he was accused of giving abacengezi food like if those bacengezi were not using the guns from the FPR military comp, Abacengezi would come and knock on your door, if you have food you are lucky because they will eat and leave you to see another day, what would RPF DO, USIND HEAVY MASHINEGUNS TO KILLERS??? As for Aimable I can only thank God and everyone else who put together such effort to help the helpless, you are not the only one this system has helped but you are certainly among few, make the most of it.

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    SG
    - February 13, 2013 at 14:15:10

    Sibomana I was so sorry to read this report about the hardships you have had to endure for so many years. Your courage and stamina certainly deserve praise. No one should have to endure such a life. I wish you an abundance of Peace and Happiness and I'm sure you'll do well in your engineering program at UPEI. God Bless.

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    Jean Bosco Nsabimana
    - February 13, 2013 at 13:06:58

    Dear Aimable, we are in the same shoes .Frankly speaking,many of us also used to starve in those emphasized refugee camps where our left ones made up of refugees from different countries torn out by wars are still sheltered .The truth is they are overwhelmed by a daily mood of pessimism over their future ,great number of others are daily passing away due to consequences of food shortage ,bad feeding,chronic illnesses that leave trauma to them,for example in Dzaleka Rfugee Camp-Malawi.May the United Nations council in partnership with UNHCR -Malawi come to their rescue so as by the end of the day ,the humanitarian solution over them would go from strength to strength.Otherwise ,it is a deluge,only prayers . Remain ever blessed.

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    Donnie Saville
    - February 13, 2013 at 12:23:12

    As an Islander living in Toronto now I'm very happy to read your story about your short , very difficult life . Welcome to Canada and to UPEI . Good luck !! Hope to read more about you and your time going to UPEI and living on the Island .

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    Paul Mustard
    - February 13, 2013 at 12:22:14

    Having spent time in the countries that Sibomana was interned in refugee camps,I say, keep up the work that got you out of that misery and prosper in P.E.I..

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    Martin
    - February 13, 2013 at 11:45:55

    Ohhh.boy..I am proud of you Aimable..(wacyanawe..).. Just loved to leave this Quote..true dipiction.. “What a weary time those years were -- to have the desire and the need to live but not the ability.” ― Charles Bukowski, Ham on Rye

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    Barici
    - February 13, 2013 at 11:34:46

    Très content que tu as eu la chance de venir au Canada et je sais bien que tu vas travailler fort . Bonne chance pour tes études.

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    Jlie
    - February 13, 2013 at 11:14:16

    am proud of you the chances given will never be spoiled

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    islander
    - February 13, 2013 at 10:26:33

    Congratulations, Sibo, on all your accomplishments. We hope you feel welcome and at home here. Best wishes for a bright and happy future in Canada.

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    Stew
    - February 13, 2013 at 09:43:35

    Investing in this young man is money well spent. Uplifting story.

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    There is work to do . . .
    - February 13, 2013 at 08:38:50

    How can we not be humbled by this young man's journey? It should strengthen our resolve to keep a critical eye on our own fragile democracy. If any of us think we could not devolve into a violent society driven by greed and corruption, we're crazy. Be it unnecessary road projects, "back room" corruption or PNP, it all speaks to the direction of the journey we choose to take. Just because other places are worse off doesn't give us licence to be complacent, does it Sibomama?

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    Dunia
    - February 13, 2013 at 08:05:31

    God bless this boy, There are so many Sibomanas in refugee camps across the globe, but the case for rwanda refugees was /is unique as some were wrongly considered descendent of genocidaires or genocidaires, for this reason not so many NGOs were really willing to help them. For that same reason thousands refugees were hunted and killed in RDC forest, including numerous children and under ages!!: Remember that the UN knew that and monitored that as well without responding in the same way they refused to help in Rwanda in time of genocide. UN influential members are accountable for Rwanda genocides and atrocity in RDC, including raping, massacre, war crime (...) as they have refused to respond.

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    shirley
    - February 13, 2013 at 07:49:21

    What a hardship for this young man all the best to you.

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    MOTHEROFTWO
    - February 13, 2013 at 06:20:59

    WOW ......what a story GOOD............ LUCK TO YOU

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    Sangwa
    - February 13, 2013 at 04:31:28

    Aimable. You have gone through hell , Mwana wa mama. At four , you did not even know why you had to suffer so. Whatever happpened in our Rwanda to cause all the suffering , you had no hand in ti . yet you suffered from the impact. But ,God is great and he kepts watch on the likes of you. You did not go to WUSC , it came to you , you did not ccall them , God sent them to you. cling to that sign-message and live a positive life full of love and free of haterate . Remain blessed

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